A wedding ring is more than just a piece of jewellery. It’s a lasting reminder of a couple's bond and commitment, worn every day and often passed down through generations.
In this guide, we’ll explain everything you need to consider when choosing a wedding ring that stands the test of time in meaning, quality, and style. From understanding different wedding band styles to choosing a gemstone and adding bespoke details, we’ll walk you through each step to help you make an informed decision.
1. Start by Choosing a Wedding Ring Style
It’s essential to find a ring design that speaks to your personal aesthetic. Think about what style you feel confident wearing every day, and what kind of jewellery you typically wear. Here are some of the most iconic wedding ring styles to help you discover what feels most like you.
Eternity
Eternity rings feature round brilliant cut or fancy-shaped diamonds encircling the entire band, symbolising an unending bond. This style is perfect for those who want an eye-catching wedding band with maximum sparkle.
Baguette
With rectangular, step-cut stones set in clean lines, baguette rings offer a sleek, architectural look. They are ideal for those who prefer a modern or minimalist style, although they can also be incorporated into vintage or more elaborate designs.
Pavé
For those who love extra sparkle and a sophisticated, elegant look on their finger, pavé rings might just be “The One” for you. This style features numerous small diamonds closely set together, creating a continuous glittering surface. However, due to their intricate craftsmanship, they may require more maintenance than other types of wedding rings.
Bezel
In a bezel ring, stones are set in a metal rim, offering both protection and a contemporary feel. It's ideal for those with active lifestyles, hands-on jobs, or anyone who prefers a ring that minimises snagging or potential damage to the stone.
Vintage-Inspired
Vintage-inspired ring band styles often feature milgrain detailing and intricate engravings with Art Deco or Victorian influences. They’re ideal for romantics who appreciate a timeless, heirloom-style aesthetic that truly stands out.
Stackable
Stackable wedding rings allow for creative combinations of rings with different designs, metals, and gemstones. Rings can be added to the stack to celebrate anniversaries, the birth of children, or other special milestones, creating a visual representation of the couple's journey together.
2. Choose the Right Metal
Different metals have different levels of strength, shine, and resistance to scratches and tarnishing. Your choice of metal should complement your style, lifestyle, and budget, while also considering factors like skin sensitivity and maintenance requirements.
Platinum
Platinum is prized for its naturally white hue that won’t fade over time. It’s hypoallergenic and exceptionally durable, making it ideal for those with sensitive skin or active lifestyles. While it offers superior longevity, platinum is heavier than gold and typically comes with a higher price tag.
Yellow Gold
A timeless classic, yellow gold has a warm, rich colour that complements a wide range of skin tones. However, yellow gold may be more susceptible to scratches and signs of wear over time. Although it is usually mixed with other metals to make it stronger and more suitable for jewellery that can be worn regularly.
Rose Gold
Rose gold has a romantic, vintage-inspired appeal that flatters warm skin tones beautifully. It also tends to be more durable than yellow gold due to its copper content. However, because of that same copper alloy, rose gold is not hypoallergenic. It can also develop a deeper patina over time, adding to its antique charm or requiring occasional polishing.
White Gold
White gold offers a bright, modern look and is a more budget-friendly alternative to platinum. Its silvery finish pairs well with diamonds and suits a wide range of wedding ring styles. To maintain its lustrous white appearance, white gold is typically plated with rhodium, which may need to be reapplied every few years.
3. Go Classic or Bold with Your Gem Choice
Gemstones can completely transform the character of a wedding ring. Whether you want traditional brilliance or a pop of personality, your choice of stone adds meaning and visual impact.
Diamond
The traditional choice for wedding rings, diamonds are loved for their unmatched brilliance, timeless appeal, and exceptional durability. With a perfect 10 on the Mohs hardness scale, diamonds are ideal for daily wear. Their versatility means they pair beautifully with any metal or ring band styles.
Coloured Gemstone
If you don’t want to take the traditional route, coloured gemstones offer a vibrant, equally meaningful and alluring alternative to diamonds. Sapphires, emeralds, and rubies, bring their rich symbolism to wedding rings. Sapphires are associated with wisdom and fidelity, emeralds with growth and renewal, and rubies with passion and love. These gemstones also lend themselves beautifully to both modern and vintage-inspired settings.
Argyle Diamond
For something truly rare and meaningful, an Argyle diamond offers unmatched exclusivity and character. This type of diamond is one of the most coveted in the world, making it a prized investment and a deeply personal choice for a once-in-a-lifetime event in your life.
4. Consider the Wedding Band Profile
The shape of your wedding band, known as its profile, influences both comfort and style. When exploring wedding ring shapes, keep your finger shape, lifestyle, and the fit with your wedding ring in mind.
Half-Round (Court)
This timeless shape is rounded on the outside and slightly curved on the inside for comfort. It's a traditional choice for wedding ring shapes, ideal for those who want a classic look with everyday comfort.
Flat
Flat wedding bands have sharp, angular edges. They may be less comfortable but are popular for those seeking bold, clean lines, perfect for someone with a minimalist or architectural aesthetic.
Double Comfort Flat
Combines the flat exterior look with a soft, curved interior, offering a balance between aesthetics and comfort. A great choice for those who love the look of a flat ring but want a more wearable design for daily use.
Flat Court
This hybrid profile features a flat outer surface with a curved inside for all-day wear. Sleek and practical, it suits professionals and style-conscious wearers who appreciate subtle sophistication.
Oval Court
A subtler take on the classic court, this shape is slightly squashed, giving a more streamlined appearance. Ideal for those who want a traditional shape with a slightly modern, refined twist.
D-Shape
Rounded on the outside and flat on the inside, the D-shape profile is traditional and lightweight, perfect for minimalists. It's especially well-suited for anyone new to wearing rings or looking for something understated.
Knife’s Edge
A sharp ridge runs down the centre of the band, offering a unique geometric appearance. It’s a statement look for those who prefer a sleek wedding ring that still has enough durability to be worn every day.
5. Match Your Engagement Ring (or Don’t)
Many stack their wedding ring with their engagement ring on the same finger, while others prefer to wear them separately, one on each hand. If you choose to wear them together, consider how the two rings will sit side by side. Try matching metals and similar design elements to create a seamless, cohesive look.
However, this isn’t a rule you have to follow. Some prefer to mix metals or combine different wedding ring styles. If in doubt, try rings on together before committing, or consider having a wedding band custom-designed to fit snugly against your engagement ring.
6. Add Bespoke Touches
Personalisation makes your ring truly one-of-a-kind. Consider engraving meaningful details such as initials, wedding dates, or a short quote. Paul Bram specialises in Custom-made jewellery we would love to work with you to bring your vision to life, creating something timeless and personal.
7. Get the Perfect Fit
Comfort matters, especially for a ring you'll wear every day. Consider your lifestyle: do you work with your hands, exercise regularly, or prefer to remove your jewellery at night? These habits can influence the ideal fit and band style for you. A snug but not tight fit is key. Your ring should slide on easily and require a gentle twist to remove. Use a ring size guide to ensure your ring fits snugly but comfortably.
8. Factor in Long-Term Maintenance and Care
Each metal ages differently. White gold needs occasional rhodium plating, while platinum may develop a satin-like patina. Consider these factors when choosing your ring.
It’s best to schedule regular check-ups with your jeweller to inspect settings and ensure your ring continues to shine for years to come. Regularly soaking your ring in warm, soapy water and using a soft toothbrush can keep it looking its best between professional cleanings.
9. Give Yourself Plenty of Time
Don’t wait until the last minute. Start browsing and planning your wedding rings at least 3 to 6 months before the big day. Custom designs and special orders often require additional time for crafting and adjustments.
10. Invest With a Trusted Name
Your wedding ring is a lifelong investment. Choose a jeweller with expertise, integrity, and a reputation for excellence. In Australia, Paul Bram Melbourne is a trusted name renowned for high-quality, GIA-certified natural diamonds. With over 90 years of experience, the brand has built its legacy on timeless design, outstanding craftsmanship, and professional service that makes clients feel confident and cared for at every stage of the journey. Working with an established jeweller not only ensures the authenticity and durability of your ring, but also gives you confidence in the long-term support you'll receive. A reputable jeweller should offer guidance tailored to your preferences, transparency about materials, and the assurance that your ring is as enduring as your commitment.
There’s no universal formula for the perfect wedding ring, but the right one will feel deeply personal and meaningful to you. Take your time, explore your options, and choose a piece that you'll be proud to wear, not just on your wedding day, but for a lifetime.